communication. community. cognition.
Training
I’m in training today, and as much as I learn from being in a session, I learn even more from conducting one. Leading a class forces you to bone up on not just the immediate subject matter, but also the secondary pieces that might come up in conversation. When I want to learn something well, I generally engineer a teaching moment.
For someone who preaches that philosophy, it took me long enough to use it at home. I still have to ride Laura (5) and Ryan (3) pretty hard to get them to brush their teeth properly. Last night, out of desperation more than anything else, I blurted out:
“Laura, teach your brother how to brush his teeth.”
I’ll probably ask her to do it again tonight. And the next night. I’ll work with her on the finer points, so her instruction gets better and plainer. I don’t know why I didn’t think of it before. Sometimes, it’s hard to break the barrier between work-think and home-think.
Do any of you have examples of times where the lessons from home provided a solution at work, or vice versa? Share them below.
[tags]Ike Pigott, Occam’s RazR, education, mentoring, parenting, teaching, coaching[/tags]
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about 3 years ago
Talk in plain language so kids/coworkers understand.
Negotiation is a beautiful thing.
about 3 years ago
It’s a theory I’d read about several times, and it comes from the very best who have made it, and made it large. The sort material you’d read about in Thomas J. Stanley’s books:
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“If you can’t do the small things well, you won’t do the bigger ones well, either.”
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In reference to managing home budgets. If a homemaker/breadwinner succeeds in keeping watchful tabs on a home budget of several thousands, holding tight rein on family outflows…chances you’ll keep on top of a larger corporate budget are pretty good.
–Adam Daniel Mezei
Prague, CR
about 3 years ago
I often get my kids to repeat the request I have just made. That way I know they are listening to me and that we both have the same understanding of the task and the expected deliverable. But in kids terms. It just looks a bit harsh in print.
about 3 years ago
Ike,
It’s true. Sometimes it all feels the same.
I still use management training gleaned from working at a fast food restaurant in high school: tell them how, show them how, let them do it with guidance, and then on their own (with follow up as needed).
If you can get them to teach someone else how, even better, because teaching reinforces the fine points that can be put into practice.
Hmmm … maybe you can ask Laura to give you pointers on your teeth brushing (make a mistake or two for her benefit).
Best,
Rich
about 3 years ago
When my classmates and I were putting together the equipment for the first campus radio station at Jefferson State Community College, the guys were stumped about how to wire something together or something – I was just watching.
I walked over and put some wires together and plugged in the equipment and it worked. I heard “How did she know to do that?”
My friend that I rode to school with explained that my dad was an Electrical Engineer. It really has paid off being forced to “Hold the flashlight” for my dad over the years. It has made me resourceful. Especially when I was a one person news department in southeast Alabama. I eventually didn’t need to call Atlanta to ask the repair guys how to repair the Associated Press news printer.