Archives for April 2009

The Doogie Howser of EST

That’s the only way I know to describe him, “The Doogie Howser of EST.”

His name is Darren Gibson, and he started following me on Twitter. He’s 19 years old, and he is a certified Life Coach.

Let me repeat that, for those of you who may have blinked.

He’s 19 years old, and he is a certified Life Coach.

Yeah, I am still processing that too.

Maybe I’m just being a curmudgeon. After all, Theo Epstein became the General Manager of the Boston Red Sox at the ripe old age of 28, and was such a mistake that he’s won two World Series. And he never played ball.

Still, there’s something a little unnerving about a 19-year-old coaching me on how to live my life. He’s been independent for how long again, exactly? More importantly, how much diversity of life experience can he bring to the table? His bio talks about how he overcame his demons, but “physican heal thyself” does not substitute for a medical degree, does it?

In High school I was alone and depressed with no friends thinking that there wasn’t much to live for but then in July of 2006 I took a small workshop where I learned how to forgive and accept myself and others. From that day I have been on a journey where I have discovered my Mission and Purpose for being here on this earth and who I Am.

I’m glad he had his nadir so early in life, so he can identify with my mid-life crisis.

A big point for me was when I discovered my Heart Virtue. This is something I am willing to die for that non-negotiable and indestructible at the center of my heart that is driving me life. It is what give me my greatest happiness and life and my greatest sadness when it is being blocked or violated.

The kid at least has some business sense. He had the presence of mind to trademark “Heart Virtue”. [Read more…]

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Justifications

{{myquote|There is no such thing as “theft with a conscience,” for we all envision ourselves as Robin Hood instead of just a hood.}}

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Hit and Run Journalism

from Angelswin.com

Nick Adenhart was a pitcher for the Los Angeles Angels, killed last night in a car crash. It was billed as a hit-and-run accident, but those under the intense deadline pressures of modern media are always groping to find some deeper meaning.

It is a senseless death. Literally. Trying to make sense of random occurrences is an exercise in futility and frustration. At the far end, it is a dangerous exercise. Our minds often aren’t capable of writing off the random as just that, and in placing significance on meaningless correlations, we perpetuate ideas that just are not valuable.

Lisa Fletcher (from MediaBistro)

Lisa Fletcher is the reporter who covered the story Friday morning for Good Morning America. She’s the ‘face’ of the piece, and in no way do I hold her entirely accountable. My dander is up over the legion of producers and news managers who pushed a story, and even vetted one that has zero significance. Not Adenhart’s death – but the ridiculous tangent of “hit-and-run” accidents being on the rise.

Here’s a quote from Fletcher’s piece:

“California has the highest number of hit-and-run deaths in the country, but other states are seeing an increase in these accidents, many of which go unsolved.”

Let’s examine that for just a moment.

A “hit-and-run” accident is a crime, and is reported as such. The accident, in and of itself, might be the result of a separate crime. In other words, the driver might be drunk, or might be driving with a suspended license. Those are crimes that may or may not have contributed to the collision.

The “hit-and-run” itself is nothing more than leaving the scene of an accident. So there are “hit-and-runs” where no crime was committed initially, but the driver left the area out of fear or panic or confusion. Which means we have many different kinds of hit-and-run accidents.

  • A true accident where a panicked driver fled. (1 crime)
  • A true accident where an unlicensed driver fled. (1 minor violation, 1 crime)
  • A true accident where a driver who should not be driving (suspended license) also flees the scene. (2 distinct crimes)
  • An alcohol or substance-related accident where the driver flees. (2 crimes)
  • An alcohol or substance-related accident where the driver had a suspended license and flees. (3 distinct crimes)

You see where this is going. There are simply too many possibilities present to lump all of these together as “hit and run accidents” with no context. It’s a meaningless distinction, because the tragedy is that people are dead, not that a participant in the accident ran away.

In her report, Fletcher followed the statement about California with a couple of anecdotal incidents from the east coast, bearing no statistical context. She then stated that 37,000 Americans every year die in hit-and-run accidents.

Tell me, how do you prevent a hit-and-run? Wouldn’t you rather prevent the accident in the first place?

And why is it that some states “lead” others in hit-and-run accidents? Might it be that California is the most populous? Let’s assume for a moment that the people vetting this story aren’t completely brain-dead, and they factored in “per capita” or “per hours on the road?” What factors might play a role in a high incidence of hit-and-run accidents?

  • A state with stiffer penalties for those driving with suspended licenses would provide greater incentive for someone to “make a break for it.”
  • A state with a less lenient judicial track record for DUIs would make it more likely that a driver will flee.
  • A state with a higher percentage of drunk drivers on the road might be likely to have more hit-and-runs, because of impaired judgment.
  • A state with a higher percentage of undocumented illegals would have a higher incidence of leaving the scene.

In the above, we have one factor that actually has something to do with the accident (drunk driving), and three that have to do with behavior linked to wanting to avoid police/judicial contact. And of those, we have two that indicate that in states where enforcement is uniform and there’s zero tolerance for DUIs, there is a greater incentive to run.

That’s right. In states where you know you’ll be punished severely for driving while intoxicated, there is more incentive to run.

This emphasis on “hit-and-run” accidents is one based on emotion, not fact. Stories where bereaved family members have “no justice” and “no one to hold accountable” are quite sexy. It makes the journalistic endeavor seem more noble than exploitative. It brings a community together to solve this crime, and bring the offender to justice.

And it’s just plain wrong, because it stirs up anger and resentment at the wrong thing.

Be angry about the accident. Be angry about the fact someone fled the scene. Don’t confuse the two, because the higher rate of “hit-and-run” accidents might in fact be a sign that the rest of the justice system is working.

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My Interview with Ragan

Ragan Communications CEO Mark Ragan interviewed me when I was in Las Vegas for the Social Media for Communicators Conference, and the edited version of that discussion is now online.

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Dislocated Knees

{{myquote|When government becomes powerful enough to make all of us get on our knees to bow to it instead of the other way around, it needs to be kneecapped.}}

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Calendar adjustment

{{myquote|Middle age is that time of life where Saturday becomes the Monday of the weekend.}}

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The Hidden Gem

Can you answer the riddle embedded on this page? (Not just this single entry, but the site as a whole.)  

Comment below with your answer! (Are the categories part of the clue?)

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