Proof of Concept

Spongebob Karate

Have you ever had one of those ideas that you thought were really cool, and inspired — and you were certain would never work? Maybe it’s the complexity, such that execution is never perfect. Maybe it’s the sheer number of things that could go wrong, or the consequences if they do. Or maybe it’s just that the idea is so simple, you worry there’s no way it could work. Oh – there’s also the fear of failure… that gets in the way too.

Spongebob KarateSunday afternoon, my four-year-old daughter wanted to go outside and do some Kung Fu. Not the Spongebob Squarepants “kah-rah-TAY!” variety, but actually some of the Kung Fu she sees daddy teaching out the window on Tuesday nights. She is obviously too young to learn much of value, and I’ve already slipped in a couple of concepts that might help protect her. Still, I was waiting for her to get a little older before asking so determinedly, and has such had to rely on an old answer: logic.

When I used to do presentations for Junior High and elementary kids, I’d invariably get asked about my hobbies, or what I did for fun. In one case, I knew the teacher, who took it upon herself to let the class know that they needed to behave because I knew “Kung Fu.” The natural response for a middle-school student is “Show us some Kung Fu!” — which would lead to the whiteboard for a lesson in logic. [Read more...]

Lesson Learned

Time for another brief lesson in communications from ORACLE: The message that worked yesterday might not work today.

Case in point: trying to get my kids to pick up their toys, on the pretense that I might remember the color of the living room carpet if I could see it. (The current color… no one remembers what it looked like originally, unless there is a furniture shuffling going on.) Sometimes they respond to rewards, but when it’s already past bedtime there’s not a lot of wiggle room for bribing them. So we move to delayed/denied privileges. [Read more...]

Invenntiveness

Is Is not

My own little corner of the Intertubes is supposed to be about explaining things, so why not get right down to explaining how to explain things?

Before we go any further, though, we have to get down to definitions. And trying to define ‘define’ can send you thinking in circles if you aren’t careful:

In comparing the above concepts, I think we can drill down to a couple of key points. ‘Defining’ something:

  1. is a conscious, willful act.
  2. is exact.
  3. captures essence.

Definitions are an important first step in just about any process. The vast majority of arguments (internet or otherwise) get ugly at the definition phase, and need go no further. If you can’t agree on terms, you can’t even agree to disagree. Yet somehow, most of our educational systems are geared more toward definition instead of cognition, or understanding. Maybe it’s just a function of easier testing, but too many people believe that learning begins and ends with the definitions.

So let me re-wire the way you think about definitions, with an analogy.

A definition is a circle… [Read more...]

Proof, er, Consequences

My Platonic Talk post drew some attention from some fellow media trainers and communicators. Apparently, I have not been alone in my assertion that “perfect speech” is not the road to perfect communication, but is in fact a hindrance. Backing that up, I have an anecdote from a study that I remembered reading years ago… and now I have other pros who would like the opportunity to cite it.

(Nothing like sticking it to the Toastmasters.)

I still have not found the original study, but apparently there is some other evidence out there backing up the concept: [Read more...]

A Place of my Own

Ryan's Room

There are many rites of passage throughout life. Graduation. Driving a car. Marriage. First paycheck. First kid. First debt. But of all of them, one that sticks out for me the most was getting a place of my own.

It was actually tied to taking my first on-air television gig out of town. I remember looking for apartments in south Alabama, and using a rather different method of choosing between the top two candidates. One was in Enterprise and the other was in Ozark — and no offense to the fine people of Ozark, but I had a sense that getting my second job would be easier with an “Enterprise postmark” on the resume.

I remember the freedom of living alone. I remember those Saturday mornings when I would postpone getting dressed, walking around my apartment however I wanted to, because it was mine, and I could, (and no one had yet done those teevee sweeps stunts where the UV lamp revealed all manner of ugliness, but I digress…)

But what about that moment when I truly did have my own place for the first time? I really don’t remember it — and the question arises because my son has just struck out on his own. [Read more...]

Bending the Truth

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That phrase, “bending the truth,” seems to carry quite a negative connotation. In the modern era of spin sensitivity and greater awareness of persuasion in action, one who “bends the truth” is often considered guilty of some transgression. Usually it involves some type of manipulation of language, taking words at their absolute face value and ignoring the common meaning. Like the teenager who confidently and truthfully tells his parents “I was home before midnight!”, because technically speaking, 12:15 a.m. is a full twenty-three hours and forty-five minutes before midnight.

But what would happen if we could take a different appreciation for “bending?” Let’s stop for just a moment to appreciate all of those philosophers and thinkers whose “bending” of known truths exposed an even greater underlying truth. (And maybe underlying carries the wrong sort of connotation as well…)

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